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Poems - Female

‘Warning’ by Jenny Joseph

When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.

And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.

I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired

And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells

And run my stick along the public railings

And make up for the sobriety of my youth.

I shall go out in my slippers in the rain

And pick flowers in other people's gardens

And learn to spit.


You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat

And eat three pounds of sausages at a go

Or only bread and pickle for a week

And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.


But now we must have clothes that keep us dry

And pay our rent and not swear in the street

And set a good example for the children.

We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.


But maybe I ought to practice a little now?

So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised

When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.



‘To My Mother' Author unknown

For all the times you gently picked me up,

When I fell down,

For all the times you tied my shoes

And tucked me into bed,

Or needed something

But put me first instead.


For everything we shared,

The dreams, the laughter,

And the tears,

I love you with a Special Love

That deepens every year.


Thank you Mum.



‘For my Grandma’ adapted from a poem 'For my Grandmother' by Genie Graveline

I have memories that make me smile,

Of a young child who longed to be,

By the side of a Grandma… so adored, 

The child I speak of was me 


You were the Grandma filled with love, 

Who had such a wonderful way,

And time spent with you was a special gift,

Each day was a magical day


I can recall all of the things that you did,

And the gentleness of your touch,

You had a talent for letting me know,

That you loved me… ever so much


And the impact that you’ve had in my life

Continues to this day still,

I loved you then, I love you now, 

And always, yes always, … I will.



‘Legacy of Love’ Author unknown

A wife, a mother, a grandma too,

This is the legacy we have from you

You taught us love and how to fight

You gave us strength, you gave us might.


A stronger person would be hard to find,

And in your heart you were always kind.

You fought for us all in one way or another

Not just as a wife, not just as a mother.


For all of us you gave your best

And now the time has come for you to rest.

So go in peace, you’ve earned your sleep,

Your love in our hearts we’ll eternally keep.



'My Mother Kept A Garden' by Kelly Z

My mother kept a garden

A garden of the heart

She planted all the good things

That gave my life its start

She turned me to the sunshine

And encouraged me to dream

Fostering and nurturing

The seeds of self-esteem

And when the winds and rain came

She protected me enough

But not too much because she knew

I'd need to stand up strong and tough

Her constant good example

Always taught me right from wrong

Markers for my pathway

That will last a lifetime long

I am  my mother's garden

I am her legacy

And I hope today she feels the love

Reflected back from me



'Your Mother Is Always With You' Deborah R Culver

Your Mother is always with you.

She's the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street.

She's the smell of certain foods you remember,

flowers you pick, the fragrance of life itself.

She's the cool hand on your brow when you're not feeling well.

She's your breath in the air on a cold winter's day.

She’s the sound of the rain that lulls you to sleep,

the colours of a rainbow. She is Christmas morning.

Your Mother lives inside your laughter.

She's the place you came from, your first home, and she's

the map you follow with every step you take.

She's your first love; your first friend, even your first enemy,

But nothing on earth can separate you.

Not time, not space...not even death

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