Here are a few things to think about prior to our meeting:
MEMORIES AND ANECDOTES
As memories come to mind make a note these so they can be incorporated into the Life Story or separate Tributes.
CEREMONY STRUCTURE
Music
Are there particular pieces of music you’d like to include? This could be recorded tracks or live music performed by a friend or family member.
Life Story (Eulogy)
If you would like me to, I can write and deliver their Life Story. If so I will interview you for this information - see below.
Tributes
Would anyone like to speak during the ceremony or alternatively write a Tribute which I share on their behalf.
Poetry and Readings
Would you like to include one or two poems or readings? You can refer to my Poems Library.
Visuals
Would you like to include a photo slideshow, either played silently on loop throughout or played once set to music? Crematoriums include a single photo as standard.
Quiet Reflection
Would you like to include a period of reflection - either accompanied by gentle music, or in silence? If appropriate, I can invite those who hold a faith to use this time for silent prayer.
CHARACTER
To help create a ceremony to suit their personality:
SUMMARY
My last question is always 'what words would you use to summarise them?' i.e. If you were to describe them in 3 or 4 words, what comes to mind?

If you would like me to write a Life Story (Eulogy), the last part of our meeting will be spent talking through this type of information:

Held on the day of the cremation or burial with the ceremony held at the crematorium or graveside.

Some families prefer to have a ceremony away from the Crematorium or Burial Ground. These can be held anywhere and are much more of a full memorial but can have the coffin in place if wanted.
After this ceremony the coffin can be taken for either a direct cremation with no one in attendance or a much smaller, private ceremony at the crematorium or graveside.

Memorials can be held on a later date with the ashes in place if wanted. These can be a longer and fuller ceremony and an opportunity to have a larger amount of people come together in a more personal space without time pressures. These can be held in any venue and followed by refreshments.

At a later date families may want a short ceremony when ashes are either scattered or buried. These are held at the final resting place of their loved one.